A Different Kind Of Glow

Here’s what I wore to Rappler’s round table discussion entitled “Labels As Bullies”. I, along with three other women who are all accomplished in their respective fields, was invited by the reputable social news organization to talk about how bullies use labels to bring us down and how we were able to overcome them. As stated on Rappler’s website, “More often than not, women encounter this kind of negativity and are labeled with words that don’t encourage us to succeed. Even worse, the more accomplished we seem to get, the more others try to bring us down.” No matter what industry we’re in, we’ve all experienced bullying. One way or another, we’ve all been there and it’s a topic everyone can relate to. This is why I had no qualms or apprehensions when Rappler approached me to be one of the panelists. Who knows, maybe my simple story can change someone’s life. If you weren’t able to catch the livestream and want to watch the episode, , visit this link. Hopefully, you’ll get inspired by our discussion.

P.S. Feel free to share your story as well on the comments section below. I’d love to know how you overcame your bullies and labels. Let’s inspire each other!

Romwe top | Zara skirt | H&M necklace | Mango wings necklace | Céline bag | Jimmy Choo heels

50 Responses to “A Different Kind Of Glow”
  1. Vianne Beatrice

    I really, really love this look. You’re all classy and sparkly(dazzling). It’s like you’re being serious and being fun at the same time. hahahaha ^.^

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  2. maebs

    you look so young. :) BTW, I watched rappler’s discussion about bullying and I didn’t know that you were bullied din po. :( I think bullies wants some attention that’s why they are bullying some people.

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    • Camille Co

      There are plenty of forms of bullying and I think all of us have experienced it at least once :)

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  3. Ericka Garcia

    Love that sparkling dress! :) So elegant and chic. :)

    Love,
    Ericka Garcia

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  4. Katrin Tuano

    I made an ask.fm account last year, and of course, the opportunities for haters to hate are there because my account is open to anonymous people. I already forgot what they’re telling me tho, but mostly it’s about my blog. I was blogging kasi before, the hater keeps on saying that I have bad taste and I’m just complimenting myself (like since it’s open to anonymous, the compliments I got in the account were just from me). And of course, I got hurt, but eventually, I didn’t care less because for me they’re just bullies who want to feel better for themselves by trying to hurt someone’s feelings. I’m ignoring them narin because I’m just being myself and I guess, it bothers them big time and it’s not my problem anymore. LOL Haha for me, just continue being yourself, we can’t do anything about them anyway, they’ll just keep on hating but don’t mind them. Always remember that if we stoop down to their level, we’ll also become like them. Stay classy, never trashy. Lol!!!! Hahahaha and one more thing, if you mind them or you let them bring you down, it’ll make them happy because they’re seeing that what they’re doing is working and you don’t want them to win right?

    And to those who’s still struggling with bullies, this is a good read: http://thoughtcatalog.com/keay-nigel/2013/07/15-reasons-why-your-haters-hate-you/ :)

    PS: I love your outfit! Love the skirt and the mint bag is such a lovely contrast to your look! Hehe <3 Hahaha i totally apologize because this comment awfully is long. It's just that… #HUGOT HAHAHAH :)))) keep rocking and inspiring Cams <3

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    • Camille Co

      Hugot! LOL! That made me laugh. But you’re all set. I mean you’ve got a great mindset so those bullies got nothing on you! <3

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    • Camille Co

      Thank you April! Glad you are a lucky one! :) The page doesn’t exist anymore, so maybe she got busted?

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  8. Christine Jullie Baldo

    your outfit is so feminine, Ate Camx :) by the way, I wanted to ask you if you could share on your blog about what to wear this prom. I’m in my junior year and I can’t decide what to wear and everything though I still dnt have a promdate. I’m looking forward for you to blog about it. thanks! :) xo

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    • Camille Co

      Hmmm I’ll try to see what I can come up with but you should check out pegs online. Don’t follow trends to much, go for something you really like and suits your age :)

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  9. Maica

    Since elementary I always transfer to different schools and to every school that I’ve been to, I would always encounter them (bullies) but the most difficult one is when I entered my high school level, that one was really tough though. But the good thing is, I was able to manage it and turn negative things into a positive one that’s why they were never able to bring me down. Although it has its negative side effects on me, I became a wallflower and became timid towards others. But when I entered college, gladly I was able to overcome my fears and making new friends! God help me through it all, He was always been there to me and my dreams are much bigger than my fears that’s why right now, I think I’m on a better place and making my dreams real, it was hard entering into one of those prestigious college school but thanks God! I pass the scholarship exam! I have a low self esteem but right now, I now it will not knock me down. And do you know the feeling that a few months from now,all those hard works and difficult situations that I’ve been through and with God’s grace, I’ll be able to receive now my diploma. Thanks because you were also my inspiration! You were such an admiring lady. :)

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    • Camille Co

      That’s a great outlook you have there Maica. I’m happy you didn’t let the bullies pull you down. The best way to retaliate is to take the high road and work on yourself–to achieve your dreams and to become the best version of you. Don’t ever listen to your bullies. <3

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  10. Yana

    I’ve been exposed to bullying. When I decided to start a blog some time around April this year, I had a lot of hate comments on my posts about my weight saying that “Baboy ka, feeling mo naman blogger ka” (in caps lock btw) and other of the same kind. Obviously, the person or people who commented that went by another name and wasn’t brave enough to show who they were.

    I was hurt and I actually wanted to stop blogging already but my friends were there to support me and encouraged me to continue doing what I love. But I can’t say that it didn’t affect me because it did. I decided to lose weight and now I have already lost 40lbs! I know that the reason why I wanted to lose weight was not a good reason (since I was like trying to prove myself to them) but now as I continue on my weight loss journey I decided that I’m doing this not for them but for myself.

    Sigh, what bullying does to people! But for sure the bullies have a story to share as well on why they’re like that. However, not all people are like me who can handle them and go through it. Some are so vulnerable to the point that they would think of killing themselves and that’s what terrifying about bullying. I hope bullying ends. :(

    ***** On other note, hi Ate Cams!!! I sent you an e-mail about an invitation to hold a talk for DLSU’s LEAP 2k15. I know a lot of people will try to contact you about this but I really really hope that you’ll accept my invitation hehe!!! Thank you Ate Cams!!!!

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    • Camille Co

      Let me check my email. I haven’t been able to these past few weeks. I’m glad you rose above your bullies, Yana! At the end of the day, it’s about accepting yourself and feeling about yourself. You took control of things, which is good! :)

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    • Camille Co

      Thanks Tayme! So far, I’m keeping the no bangs look so I’m happy you like it! :)

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  14. flaceM

    Hi Ms. Camille :-)

    This is so inspiring. I myself was engaged in this activity. But I am not going to deny that I’ve been bullied and once a bully. I guess that’s how I coped up with my past state. But I had to admit I wasn’t proud of it. I outgrew my fear and faced life without labels. I know I can’t help but offend people without my knowledge but I also can’t restrain myself by doing something I know I just did because I want to. Thank you for posting this :-) I know a lot of people look up to you and I know you inspire them (like me) through this :-D

    Have a nice day!

    flaceM
    MITZIE:-)

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    • Camille Co

      It takes courage to admit that you were once a bully. We all learn from our past mistakes. :)

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  15. Clariss

    Because of you ate cams,through your blog, I’ve realized so many things, I’ve learned how to love myself too. Because in the past I hated how I look, I always feel insecure and many many more but through your blog I’ve learned that when I’ve accepted my flaws and insecurities, that’s how I can feel comfortable and beautiful inside out :) and no one can say anything about me that would hurt me because I have accepted them :) Thank you so much for everything! You really are my inspiration <3 Love lots

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    • Camille Co

      That’s right. Own them! :) You are beautiful and no one can take that away from you :)

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  16. Clariss

    I Love your skirt! :)))

    Sadly, I was actually once a bully ate cams :( It was in gradeschool, at that time I didn’t know why I was a bully but then when I was in highschool I realized some things, I acted like that because I was so lonely and because of my family too, my parents were always fighting and eventually broke up that time :( I think that was the reason why I was a bully :( I needed attention somehow. I eventually stopped bullying my classmates when I realized that there were people who loves me and cares for me :) I felt very sorry to all those people whom I bullied, I didn’t think that they might be also having problems </3 :'( So I think it is also important to know each person's story before judging :) anyways,I almost cried when I heard the story of the CEO's son that when he got home he got ballpen marks on his skin and when I saw your face ate cams you were almost crying :'( Wow you were a straight A student! wish I was like you smart,pretty,have a good heart…everything! I loved what you said in the video. I agree with you ate cams :)

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    • Camille Co

      I agree, everyone has a story to tell, a story that needs to be understood. I wish you the best Clariss! Glad you turned over a new leaf :)

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  17. Anne

    Love this ensemble Cams especially the skirt and the shoes! I agree with you about bullies and bullying. It’s never a good feeling to be a victim of it and one has to learn how to deal with it right and make sure that one doesn’t become a bully themselves. We should pass love instead. I believe it’s far easier to love than hate. Agree? :)

    Oh and I hope it’s fine if I leave a link to a blog post I made two months ago about handling the negativity and frustration brought about by bullying. I hope it helps people who need some inspiration and a motivational push. So here goes –> Food For Thought: Bullying. What Gives?

    Thanks for always being an inspiration Cams! You rock!

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  19. Phil

    Just one look at your beautiful face and the day is brighter! Thank you Camille xx

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